
With untamed shorelines, an endless horizon, and old money community, it’s almost unfathomable that this quiet, oceanside town is so close to the bright lights of NYC. And yet, Southampton has maintained its status as a weekend escape for decades. It’s also making quite a splash in the wedding industry, where intimate affairs in lavish destinations have become the next big thing.
Your wedding day should be as unique as your love story. That’s why we think a Victorian estate or one-of-a-kind poolside oasis will do. You deserve only the best, and we know just where to find it.
Are wedding bills already piling up? Don’t let expenses creep up on you and crush your big wedding fantasy. Choose a luxurious property and a value-driven price with the Giggster app and suddenly Southampton nuptials are accessible for everyone.
Ready to make a commitment to a breathtaking wedding venue? Our rentals are meant for making memories that last a lifetime, curated down to every last detail so you can focus on filling the space with love.
Southampton is a dream destination wedding location and a lot of that is thanks to its scenic landscape and beautiful facilities. Here’s a little snapshot of what tying the knot could look like—Southampton style:
Looking for the most romantic sunsets in town? Homes along the salt marshes are perfect for ocean lovers who want something a little more wild and natural. Your outdoor wedding can start with a ceremony amidst an extraordinary landscape with live painters and violinists, then you can party from dusk to dawn in a big white tent.
Your wedding dinner doesn’t need to be fussy if you don’t want it to be. Have that scenic ceremony and then focus on the things that matter—like quality time celebrating with your friends, family, and loved ones. Reception venues with good food as the focal point, like a sporty pub, are perfect for casual couples who value a laid-back atmosphere.
Our selection of poolside paradises are amongst the best outdoor spaces in Long Island. Hold your ceremony at a famous location nearby like Shelter Island or North Fork’s Peconic Bar, then settle back in for a summery soiree. Dive right in (in your bridal gown or skivvies, it's up to you) for an all-out raging reception full of fun, or keep it classy with floating lanterns, twinkling lights, and waterside cocktail tables. Either way, you’ll get ocean resort vibes without the price tag associated with a boutique hotel buyout.
Exceptional Variety & Quality: Whether your ideal wedding looks like an elopement by the harbor or a big bash in a top-secret warehouse, there’s a Southampton venue for every couple: in fact, we’ve got 10 of them.
Hassle-Free Booking: As one of the most important days of your life, you’re likely experiencing some stress trying to nail down contracts with your favorite vendors. Don’t let us add to the pile! We’re friendly, fast, and budget-friendly (with incredible properties available from $100/hour) so you can focus on a day filled with love over worry.
24-Hour Free Cancellation Policy: A change of plans doesn’t need to be complicated. As long as your reservation is more than 48 hours from the time you booked, you have a 24-hour grace period from the time of your booking to cancel without penalty.
Platform Protections: Tying the knot should never leave you tied up in a legal mess. Add a premium protection plan to your rental of top Southampton wedding venues like Large Hamptons estate home: Location 5114, while our expert team handles disruptions, damage, and liability concerns.
Want to come off as an effortlessly chic host? The key to flawless execution is an understanding of all the reasons Southampton NY is a beloved wedding destination and also its pitfalls so you can plan around them.
Advantages
Southampton boasts a luxurious, coastal vibe with stunning beaches you can use for a ceremony on the shore.
The city has a wicked nightlife scene with a wide variety of after-dark entertainment options, perfect for your bachelor/bachelorette parties or an after-party when the reception ends.
Southampton is a haven for boutique hotel lovers, which guarantees a lovely place to offer guests a hotel reservation block, and a gorgeous honeymoon suite.
Disadvantages
The wedding industry in Southampton is known for being particularly expensive. While we can help you save money on your venue fees, your other vendors may rack up costs quickly.
Unless you’re into a winter wonderland aesthetic, this is a destination with a distinct wedding season. For good weather and full access to the natural beauty of the area, you’ll be limited to specific months of the year.
Traffic between NYC and the Hamptons can be atrocious, so keep this in mind if your guests will be expected to travel. An overnight (or two) might be less stressful for everyone.
Perhaps your perfect backdrop boasts architectural beauty set against the Atlantic Ocean, or maybe a simple luncheon in the country speaks your name. No matter what your dream wedding looks like, we guarantee you’ll find a captivating setting here on Giggster.
Beach Houses – Quintessentially Long Island. Cedar shakes, beach grasses, and spectacular views—does it get more Southampton than that? Your micro wedding could start with a ceremony in the sand before transitioning back to a more private space for cocktail hour. You’ll already have access to a coastal retreat where the wedding party can crash at the end of the night and you can host a morning-after backyard brunch to start your life as a married couple.
Historic Estates – Elegance Everywhere. Want to bring a taste of Europe to your Southampton wedding? A house full of antique finishes in polished cherry and rich mahogany, surrounded by manicured lawns and gorgeous gardens is the answer. With the sound of bubbling fountains setting the scene, these venues can accommodate plenty of guests while maintaining a sense of serenity. Just bring in vintages from Long Island wine country and extravagant catering services and have yourself a feast!
Warehouse Spaces – A Blank Slate. An industrial warehouse may not be groundbreaking in the wedding industry as a whole, but it’s certainly a unique space in Southampton, offering a bit of a diversion from the pastel, coastal vibe that is a bit more expected. They offer a blank slate so you create your own aesthetic from the ground up. From a wild bachelor party night to a formal banquet-style rehearsal dinner with candlelit tables, the choice is all yours.
It’s no secret that wedding celebrations require a whole lot of planning. Once you’ve settled on a lovely space, here are some of our industry-approved coordination tips to help streamline your planning process:
Take Inspiration from the Scenery – The Hamptons are known for their understated elegance with a hint of coastal grandmother aesthetic. When choosing your wedding palette, pull tones from the landscape around you- this could be an assortment of pastel blooms (think blue and white hydrangeas and delphiniums), dreamy neutrals of sand and shells, or a muted sunset gradient.
Dress to Impress – Choosing the right wedding dress will have a big visual impact on your wedding day’s final aesthetic. This isn’t limited to gowns either. A clean, white jumpsuit would fit the vibe, and linen suits on the men would round out the look. You also need to decide on a guest dress code. If you have a smaller guest count, you can get a bit more playful and provide a requested color scheme for incredible, magazine-worthy photos.
Account for Keeping Everyone Warm – Especially with Southampton’s seaside breeze, dusk can sometimes bring with it a little chill, even at the peak of summer. Have blankets, shawls, propane heaters, and other solutions to keep everyone comfortable throughout an outdoor reception.
Plan a Special Bonding Experience – Whether it’s a leisurely cruise around the harbor in a boat built for two, a visit to the oyster bar, an early morning tennis match, or a beachfront bonfire, do something so undeniably “the Hamptons” and kick off your wedding weekend the right way. This can be a team excursion for the whole wedding party or a private moment to sneak away before you become a bride and groom.
A Southampton wedding won’t come cheap, but there are some things you can do to keep spending at bay and get that expensive Long Island look for less.
Serve local wine.
If you’re stocking the bar yourself, you may be able to get a deal on cases from the vineyards directly, and picking them up before the event yourself will help save on shipping fees.
Save on the little details so you can afford to splurge on the bigger ones.
If you really can’t pass up on the designer dress, perhaps you can save some money on other accessories when piecing together your wedding look. Attire like satin heels, teardrop earrings, and even dramatic, cathedral-length veils can be found for a steal through online retailers and we promise, no one can tell the difference.
Ditch the traditional catering.
Especially when working with a smaller guest list, you can do all kinds of crazy things when it comes to your food menu. Do you love a good lobster roll? Would nothing make you happier than a pile of spaghetti? Honor your tastebuds and order up some platters of your favorites from a local restaurant instead of the traditional roast and potatoes we’ve all grown to know and expect.
Ready to lock down a unique NY venue? From a garden party at an elegant French country manor to a surf club-inspired soiree in the sand, the Giggster app has plenty of properties with impressive grounds to explore.